Good News in the Diner Revisited
Jul 29th, 2008 by John
Good News in the Diner Revisited
by
John W Frye
Jake leaned over the counter in the diner across the street from the hospital and breathed in the aroma of the hot, black coffee. He was tired from being with his daughter, Mandy, and her husband, Steve, all night. Mandy had complications with her pregnancy, went into premature labor and something caused trauma to the baby and he (little Jason) died in the womb. Mandy, devastated and drained and still in labor, will deliver a still born child. Steve is by her side. Jake needed some air and space to think.
Another man sat down on the stool next to Jake and placed a small and crumbled gift-wrapped box on the counter. He ordered coffee, too. They sat there side by side in silence until the man said to Jake with a slight smile, “Friend, you look as tired as I feel.”
“You got me there, pal. I’ve been up all night with my daughter and her husband. She just lost her first baby. Something went wrong in the womb. It was a boy. They named him Jason.” Jake paused a moment. “Yep, little Jason.” Then silence wrapped around the two of them again.
Jake took a sip of coffee and, glancing at the man, noticed tears in the man’s eyes. Jake shifted on the stool and feeling uncomfortable spoke to the man. “And what brings you here? Uh, to the hospital, I mean?”
“Oh, I’ve come to see my new granddaughter.” Picking up the crumbled gift, he said, “I got her one of those squeezy, noise-making things.” He gently laughed to himself.
“Is she…your granddaughter all right?”
“Oh, yeah. She and my daughter-in-law will probably go home today. I’ll go see them in about 20 minutes. I was told to come after the morning feeding. I guess I got here a little too early. Eager grandpa and all that. Uh, why did you ask if she was all right?”
Jake glanced away unsure if he should say what he had thought. He spoke anyway. “Well, I thought I saw tears in your eyes a moment ago. I wondered if your granddaughter was O.K.”
“Oh, yeah. Yeah, she’s fine. It was just that…when you told me about little Jason, I remembered when Clara and I lost our first…Kimberly. Clara’s my wife. We were so excited to welcome Kimberly. Somehow the cord got wrapped around her neck and she died. It was heart-breaking.” The man went silent and stared back in time. “When you said you lost Jason, it all came back. Let your daughter know that she is in my prayers.”
Jake was at a loss for words. This stranger’s heart broke over hearing about the loss of Jason. The man had been down this painful road himself. He even knew more than Jake did about the deep sorrow in Mandy and Steve’s heart. Jake and his wife had never lost a child like this.
Jake said, “I will, friend. And, uh, thanks for your prayers, too…and congratulations on your granddaughter.”
“God bless you, my friend. Again, I’m sorry about Jason.”
Jake tossed two dollars on the counter and walked out. As the door closed behind him he heard the man telling the waitress, “…and there’s no pain quite like the loss of a child.”
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quite a different story altogether.
Nancy,
Intentionally so…who is more like Jesus with Jake?
Dad-
I know the question is “who is more like Jesus?” but I have to say, to me, it’s who is more human. Who can just be. The first visitor is afraid to just be a person, to feel, to experience life. So he has to hide behind “truths” and quick words.
The other visitor knows who he is. Knows how to feel and be. Knows that there is wisdom and truth in silent listening and compassionate empathy.
Thanks, Dad. I love the story–both times.
Elisha,
You’ve made the most insightful connection about the Christian quest–that is, to become more human. Sin is an attack upon our humanity. Jesus comes, of course as God, but also as the ’second Adam’, the truly and fully human being. The more we become like Jesus, the more truly human we become. Full humanity glorifies God.
I am glad you liked the stories.
Love ya!
Dad
The stories, both of them, are metaphors for the institutional church as a whole. Unfortunately, too many churches have forgotten how to be human. They have gotten so wrapped up in “believing the right truth” that they’ve missed this “being” piece. I remember a trite but catchy phrase from my youth: Christians becoming so heavenly minded that they are no earthly good.
Jesus the Friend of Sinners would most likely not fit well in many modern church communities. HW
John,
Thanks for seeing the importance of being human. I write about it here: http://monachusbellator.wordpress.com/2008/07/20/i-am-a-human/
To me, becoming who I was intended to be is an amazing journey, it is freedom and truly Good News.
Thanks,
Dave
Dave (#6),
Thanks for your comment and letting us know about your own journey. God bless you, friend.
John
thanks John
I think if it was left at version 1 then I would have been heart broken, so thanks for version 2. Being human is so important, having the grace to acknowledge the pain others feel, having the love to lift them up, having the compassion not to explain their situation but to be there with them, in it.
Version 2 shows me there is hope.